With the car fully loaded and everyone settled in—dogs included—the journey commences.
Embarking on a road trip is a cherished tradition across America. It offers a gorgeous panorama of changing vistas: wide-open prairies morph into dense forests that eventually lead to bustling cityscapes. Those delightful stops for slices of homemade pie or quirky souvenirs add to the charm. Inhale the refreshing scents of the ocean breeze or pine trees drifting through the open windows (though let’s be honest, it might just be the asphalt).
Everything seems perfect—until it isn’t. The driver feels fatigued, the kids start squabbling, and someone inevitably asks for yet another bathroom break. If we could all settle on some basic guidelines, many of these scenarios could be avoided.
To help ensure your road trips are memorable and enjoyable, we’ve compiled a list of 33 essential tips to make your journey smooth and filled with unforgettable moments.
Begin your adventure with a spotless vehicle. While you’re at it, double-check all fluid levels, tire pressure, and consider replacing your windshield wipers if they’re looking worn out.
That cute little air freshener dangling from the rearview mirror might catch some eyes, but it’s a major no-go for road trips. Artificial fragrances can trigger headaches for scent-sensitive passengers, resulting in a decidedly unenjoyable ride.
Does someone wish to take the wheel while others nap, or does a single driver prefer to plow through the day? Whatever your preference, ensure everyone is in agreement right from the start.
When it comes to seating arrangements, adults occupy the front while kids sit in the back, with the youngest and smallest taking the center seat when applicable.
Helmholtz Resonance isn’t the name of an up-and-coming band; it refers to the unpleasant drone created when traveling at speed with the windows down. So, roll them up and blast some tunes instead.
Plan your route wisely. Identify the best exits for rest stops, meal breaks, and interesting attractions so you aren’t making hasty decisions fueled by hunger and fatigue.
Every budding driver should familiarize themselves with a jack, tire iron, lug nuts, and spare tires—this knowledge will prove invaluable one day.
Who occupies the middle seat?
Avoid hogging the trunk space
Although cars usually provide ample storage, don’t claim it all for yourself. Keep a smaller bag with necessities nearby so others don’t have to dig through a heap of luggage to retrieve your magazine.
Concentration is key!
The primary responsibility of the driver is to focus on the road. Leave tasks like music selection and navigation to the passengers. And remember: no texting or drinking while driving.
Keep calm, even in traffic
For the sake of everyone in the car, incorporate deep breaths into your routine, even when someone cuts you off. Wave goodbye but keep the aggressive gestures to yourself.
You’re responsible for your own car sickness
If you tend to experience motion sickness, don’t hesitate to inform the group. Let them know at the beginning of the trip if necessary, and avoid using your phone as it can worsen nausea. However, if queasiness strikes, promptly alert the driver so they can make a stop before it escalates.
Speak now or forever hold your peace
Everyone should utilize restroom facilities during planned stops. If nature calls outside of these times, let others know well in advance to ensure adjustments can be made.
… But don’t ask for another stop right after
You’ve had your opportunity, so do your best to hold on and appreciate the scenery instead of longing for frequent stops.
No excessive backseat driving, please
Keep any criticisms or gasps to yourself. The driver holds all authority here, after all.
Complaining isn’t an option
You are not the only passenger in this tightly-spaced vehicle. Fight the desire to repeatedly inquire, “Are we there yet?”
Be generous with charging opportunities
In an ideal scenario, everyone would hop in with fully charged gadgets. However, when a fellow traveler needs a charge, pass them the cable. If you tend to panic when your battery level dips below 50%, consider bringing a portable charger.
The sunroof must be a collective choice
While the warmth of the sun and the breeze may be invigorating for some, it could be uncomfortable for others. When considering the sunroof, it’s best to reach an agreement among passengers.
Screen time limitations are flexible
While engaging in car games and songs can be fun, it’s also completely okay to let the kids relax with their favorite shows. Bring along some toys and crafts, but don’t hesitate to let them indulge in more screen time if needed.
Respect the no-feet-on-the-dashboard rule
Though it may feel comfy to stretch out, keeping your feet off the dashboard is crucial. If the airbag deploys, it could create dangerous consequences. MythBusters even highlighted this safety concern with a crash test.
Buckle up your furry friends
To ensure the safety of both yourself and your pet, the front seat should be off-limits for dogs, including your lap. Use a harness or a designated pet travel carrier, and consider using a booster seat if your pup is small.
Leave the tuna salad behind
Before opening your container of tuna salad or anything similarly pungent, ask yourself if it will offend the group. Save the smelly snacks for designated pit stops, unless the group agrees otherwise. Check out these alternatives.
Fast food is acceptable … to a degree
If you’re going to opt for fast food, make sure it’s a worthwhile choice. Don’t settle for the first drive-thru; keep your personal favorites in mind, accounting for local gems and popular chains. Nobody wants leftover fries, but a famous milkshake from Cook Out? That’s worth the stop!
Dig in
Forget about formal dining etiquette while traveling by car. Feel free to indulge in your snacks with your hands and wipe your fingers on your clothes if needed.
One cupholder per occupant!
Cupholders are extremely valuable. If you bring multiple drinks, consider combining or finishing them before taking on new beverages.
No littering allowed
Never throw trash out of the window. Instead, pass around a communal trash bag and throw it away at designated stops.
Is it ever acceptable to rest your feet on the dashboard?
Only if you have a perfect pedicure
Only if you’re wearing a walking boot
No way, even if you own the car
Keep your gas tank sufficiently filled
Now is not the time to play it risky, Kramer! Keep your fuel levels above a quarter tank and avoid driving on empty.
Be the hero who fills up
While it may feel tedious, someone needs to take on the responsibility of pumping gas, and that should be someone other than the driver, who deserves a break from driving duties.
Offer to share gas money
While the driver may appreciate your gesture or refuse your offer, it’s courteous to suggest contributing to fuel costs or snacks incurred along the way.
About this article
Editing by Gabe Hiatt and Amanda Finnegan. Design editing by Christine Ashack. Design and development by Katty Huertas. Illustrations by iStock. Copy editing by Briana R. Ellison.
